We’ve all been there—telling ourselves, “I’m trying to eat healthy,” or “I’m trying to exercise more,” or even, “I’m trying to drink enough water.” But let’s take a moment to be honest: aren’t you tired of trying?
The truth is, trying isn’t the same as doing. And if you’re feeling stuck, it’s time to ask yourself a tough question: Am I really trying?
Because here’s the thing—if you were actually trying, I bet you’d be succeeding.
Why “Trying” Isn’t Enough
When we say we’re “trying,” what we often mean is that we’ve thought about it, maybe even made a half-hearted attempt, but haven’t fully committed. It’s easy to fall into this trap because it feels like we’re giving ourselves credit for something without fully holding ourselves accountable.
The problem with trying is that it keeps us in a safe zone. It’s a word that gives us an excuse for not following through:
- “I tried, but I got too busy.”
- “I tried, but I didn’t have time.”
- “I tried, but it was too hard.”
Sound familiar? It’s time to call ourselves out on it. If we’re being real, we all know that the difference between “trying” and “doing” comes down to effort and consistency.
How to Stop Trying and Start Doing
If you’re ready to stop spinning your wheels and start making real progress, here’s how to shift your mindset from “trying” to doing:
- Define What Success Looks Like
Vague goals like “eating healthy” or “exercising more” aren’t enough. Get specific. What does eating healthy look like for you? Does it mean cooking your meals at home, eating more vegetables, or cutting back on processed foods? Clarity makes action possible. - Commit to Action
Drop the word try from your vocabulary. Instead of saying, “I’m going to try to drink more water,” say, “I will drink 64 ounces of water every day this week.” A clear, actionable goal sets you up for success. - Hold Yourself Accountable
Track your progress. Whether it’s through journaling, apps, or check-ins with a friend, accountability keeps you honest about whether you’re following through or falling back into old habits. - Start Small, But Stay Consistent
Change doesn’t have to be all or nothing. Focus on small, manageable steps you can sustain. For example, instead of committing to a full workout every day, start with 15 minutes of movement. Consistency beats intensity when building habits. - Get Out of Your Own Way
Most of the time, the only thing stopping you is you. Let go of the excuses, stop waiting for the perfect moment, and start doing what you said you would.
Show Us What You’ve Got
At the end of the day, success is within your reach—but only if you stop trying and start taking action. You don’t need permission, a perfect plan, or the “right time.” All you need is to decide that you’re done with excuses and ready to show yourself what you’re capable of.
So what’s it going to be? Are you going to keep trying—or are you ready to stop talking about it and start living it?
The choice is yours.
Take that first step today. Don’t just try. Do.